TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.
HAS PLENTY OF NICE GUYS NOW
Hi, I am very happy
with the responses I got, but now I have plenty of nice guys after me.
Please take down my personal listing. Hopefully I won't need it again.
TGIRLS & GUYS WITH WEIRD IDEAS
I went with a TS for almost five years. It was a very enjoyable time in my life before she moved. The bottom line is: Treat everyone as you would like to be treated.
Thank you so much.
DEVELOPING REALISTIC RELATIONSHIPS
You have established an informative website that provides individuals with the information that they need in order to better understand and appreciate the special considerations that are important as they attempt to developing realistic relationships between one another.
It is readily apparent that sex is not the issue, the target on the website. I have no doubt that you would agree that sex, without love, is valueless; meaningless. Without virtue. That those who attempt to meet just for sex are bound to wander from pillar to lamp post forever 'n' ever, very much alone and totally disillusioned.
Kudos! Kudos for your efforts and zeal to bring potentially best friends 'n' confidants together at last. Well done....
--Bill M., Spring Lake, NJ.
TGIRLS & OLDER MEN
I LOVE your website! I am a 45-year-old American Indian/Hispanic male, a high school teacher, divorced, with kids and living near Portland, Oregon, in a fairly suburban town. I more or less "came of age" as a guy who lusted after Tgirls in the San Francisco area during the 1980s.
I had some friendly relationships with Tgirls then, but the fear took over. You may recall that this was the peak of the AIDS fear -- nobody knew anything about it other than people were dying from a transmissible disease. So I married a straight woman and had two kids.
I am having one heck of a time finding any Tgirl interested in dating me. This, even though I have LOTS of genetic girls who are very interested in dating me. I no longer go to bars (too old to fit in). I am very very interested in finding a nice Tgirl for a girlfriend and life partner. I know the road ahead is dificult, but attainable.
I just wanted to write to you and let you know that, contrary to popular belief, not every "old guy" is gross, confused, or not worth knowing. We're on a quest, too. And there may have been good reasons for us to avoid Tgirl relationships in earlier years.
Peace and love,
A BIT MORE TIME
Hi, I must thank you for the words you have provided. I did meet a very lovely special lady. And I became scared. She was very nice and I, for some reason, became scared to continue with it. I only knew her for a month. And she wanted to move in with me. I loved the thought but I guess I just wanted a little more time to get to know her better.
HAVE PREFERENCES TOO
[References an email about advice to a short man] Yes, height is a big deal. Just as looks are. Sure, we all want to act "enlightened" and say it doesn't matter but it does. How many times have you looked at an UGLY girl from across a crowded room and thought "Wow! I bet she's intelligent, I wanna meet her!"? If you answer truthfully, you're going to respond with "Never."
Aside from that, all it takes is one person to "clock" you and that will ruin your night. No, everyone isn't as secure with themselves and as "enlightened" as they should be, but it's the truth. Even genetic women aren't running around looking for guys who don't physically turn them on. I can't believe you told this poor guy that the woman he was speaking to is "shallow" if she doesn't want to speak to him anymore. Get real; people have preferences. A heterosexual woman isn't going to date a gay woman just because they "get along." A guy who isn't into Tgirls isn't going to date one just because they "get along." If this same girl lied and was really a big hairy burly man would it matter? You get along.
SAYS IT'S ABOUT TIME
I've not even finished reading everything on your site and all I have to say is that it's "about time!"
Wish this had been around as a resource for many of the guys I've dated as a soon-to-be post-op woman. Thanks for dealing with some of the myths about this.
--Gina K., Publisher.
JUST BE YOURSELF
came across TSgirlfriend.com, and I read most of the information. It was
very interesting and educational. I've always wondered what goes on inside
a TS from the emotional side. I find this site has given me some blunt
answers about the facts. I always thought that some men / women are born
with both a penis and breasts. I have seen a few photos of absolutely
beautiful TS's where I really could not believe have penises.
ATTRACTED TO TGIRLS
I want to thank you for this web page and all the infomation. I'm a 45-year-old male who, for a long time, has been interested in those that are transgendered. There was so much info and thought in your pages, I really am grateful to have read and saved your page.
The only thing is, not all men are creeps and bad guys. To me, there is no difference between a GG and a transsexual woman, except that a GG takes for granted the things she has and a transsexual woman makes the best of what she has and always looks good, and lives life to the fullest. Trust me, I know this because I'm married and she doesn't care how she looks anytime.
I know you will think
I'm "one of those men" because I'm married and looking to meet
someone nice, but the truth is not all marriages last forever and only
some are fairytale-like. I found out after that I am bisexual but have
never been with anyone other than the wife. I would like to someday meet
someone that I can relate to and date (sex isn't everything). In fact,
it should be on the lower part of any list on things to look for. I really
don't want to take all your time up, so I will say thank you again for
all the rich words that you have written.
IS NO RAVING FEMINIST
TO EXPLORE WITH A TGIRL
Hi, I just want to thank you for your website, "TS Girlfriend." I am in the process of exploring my sexual self, and have been intrigued by transsexuals. I would love to sit and talk, get to know one, and after reading part of your guide, I am sure this will help. I am not gay! Sexual encounters with men are something that does not appeal to me, but I want very much to give pleasure to a transsexual. I hope after reading the information you provide, this will help this "experiment," "fantasy," "dream," or whatever you want to call it, become a reality. Thanks again.
TGIRL FINDS A GUY
He is an exceptional man with many of the qualities that I am looking for in a mate. So I am asking that you remove my pic and email address from the website so that I can dedicate my full attention to the possibilities that this new experience has afforded me. Thank you again and hope that you keep the website. There are many exceptional TS women, and men that find us appealing, who are geninuely interested in having a relationship that goes beyond sexual gratification.
Thank you again.
FOR TGIRLS WITHOUT
Hi, first of all, I would like to say that this is such a wonderful service for all the TS's up and coming to the already established TS's that are living without a man who love them. This service has brought so much light and hope to all TS's lives. The reason that I am writing is to find out abou getting my picture on. And are their any pages on your site that a TS can put info about herself (such as a profile of likes and dislikes)?
-- FLY THE FRIENDLY SKIES
Hi. This is the best web page on the subject so far. Tgirls are humans, sensitive and very attractive most of the time. I wish to congratulate the man who wrote the "Revelations" comment on the Tgirls letters index page. Unfortunatly my English is not that good. I sure wish to savor and get to know them better. I just got to the US two weeks ago, from Venezuela. I am 55 years old and am a very happy pilot.
THE TGIRLS SEEKING LTR SECTION
an extremely nice, sensitive guy, who truly enjoys a nice person. For
various reasons, I am very attracted to pre-op TS girls. I have been a
professional person, and love a lady who is very feminine, that also has
a dick. Silly me.
Hi, I'm planning a date with a TS currently. Your article has been very helpful in understanding the TS. Thank you so much. Hopefully the date will go well.
THE MODERN WOMAN
Read your stuff.
You're on point about the modern woman. I, as many guys feel, women are so busy being like men that they lose their feminine qualities. This is a biggie.
As for deniability and all the rest, it fits to be sure.
The articles I read on your site were very informative. I finally am getting some understanding about my previously MISunderstood desires. Keep up the great work.
PROMOTE MAN BASHING
I am very interested
in meeting new and exciting people. For as long as I can remember, I have
had great respect for females. I have five older sisters and they are
the most important people in my world. I have also learned much about
females from them. I was married for 16 years and now find it very difficult
to find someone worthy of my partnership.
I have many female friends that have been in bad relationships and think that all men are dogs. I tell them all the time if they think that about all me then there is no possibility of them find a good one because they have such a closed mind. I was disappointed when I read some of the terrible things about men you have on your site, mainly because some of the TS's listed seem like really nice people. Every gender has good and bad it is sad to think we have come this far and learned nothing.
Thank you for your time.
--A good man.
SAYS ARTICLE ROCKS
I'm going to forward your article to every guy who asks me out from now on. Thank you SO much for writing this.
SEEKING GUY WHO HAS READ THIS SITE
GETTING QUALITY DATES NOW
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SENDS GUYS TO THIS SITE
I am a pre-op in Seattle, WA. I date about two or three times a month. My goal is to date out only to straight places and be accepted and treated as a lady in public. I now send your site to all men interested in dating me.
It has opened many men's eyes, that we all are not all out for only sex.
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