TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.
CAN A MAN
COMMIT TO A TGIRL?
I'm a pre-op Tgirl and I really appreciate the articles on your site. I was wondering if you had any stories from a man in a LTR with a TS. What was his relationship history like? Did he ever experiment with men.
I'm going to be 31 and I am in a relationship with a younger man. He refuses to commit to me and go from "Let's be friends" to questioning me about who and where I am. I'm about ready for a blind, arranged marriage. I need some help. Point me to a guy who can be there for me or point him to me.
ABOUT VAGINAL DAMAGE
I am a transgender myself and I was just wondering if you could answer a question for me. I can't find this information on the Internet so it's best for me to ask someone with more experience.
I am a post-op girl and I am kinda scared of doing hard sex, like sitting on top and doing it the rough way.
My English is pretty bad so I don't know how I can put it into other words. But I was wondering if I could damage the inside of my vagina or have other complications by fucking a dick which is too big or by being in a wrong sex position.
I really want to know. Thank you.
First of all, your website is top notch. Having links to all the pages at the end of each page really helps the ease of use. That marble background adds to the attractiveness without taking away from the text. (The ladies don't hurt either, but they do take from the text). If you did it yourself, give yourself a medal. If you didn't, pass the compliment on to your webmaster.
Enough schmoozing. Here comes the tough part.
No, I don't want you to hook me up with someone who will dress up as an SS officer and beat me with a rolled up copy of the Washington Post.
I'm a college librarian. This evening, I attended a book lecture by a philosophy professor about email and the change it has made in human relations as well as communication. People can assume any identity they choose. Email, chat rooms, and so on make this easy.
The professor then mentioned a M2F at the University of Texas at Austin who is interested in this. She's written a book about it, which centers on the technological aspect. However, the professor said that this scholar has also written on the change in identity that comes with change in gender.
I think the idea (don't quote me) is that, while an identity is rather forced on one, a change in gender provides the individual with a chance to remake herself, and the experience can be very liberating.
I'd absolutely treasure the opportunity to discuss this with someone who is willing to. It's not the sort of thing that can be brought up easily in a chat room, and I don't chat so good. So that avenue is pretty closed off.
Your website seems a way to get in touch with a variety of people. It's also not one that relies on the sensational, which a lot seem to do.
Having said all this (a horrible case of acute and chronic logorrhea) I'll close. If you've had the stamina to read this far, thanks.
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