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OF BOTH WORLDS
My name is Robert, and I need help, badly. I've always been different from my peers, and have struggled throughout life trying to "fit in,", but it wasn't until recently that I've accepted why that is.
I don't know if there's a word for people like me. There's "gay" and "bi" and "straight," but I don't really consider myself to be any of those. Before I continue any further, let me apologize in advance for anything I say that may be offensive or derogatory. It is truly not my intent to offend you or anyone else, but I am extremely ignorant of the world I'm trying to enter, and I'm sure to make a few mistakes along the way.
The thing about me is, I am one of those guys who wants the best of both worlds, so to speak. I absolutely love women in almost every single way, but sex with women leaves me terribly unsatisfied, as I am very much attracted to the male organ. So, you might say, just have sex with men. Well, the thought of being with another man is kind of gross. I can't imagine myself kissing another man, sharing a bed with one, waking up next to one, or anything like that. Thinking about it almost makes me sick. Nothing against those who are into that sort of thing, it's just not for me.
A woman on the other hand, I love to kiss, sleep with, and so forth, just, as I said, I am not sexually satisfied with them. I am not one who likes the one-night stand. Believe it or not, I am a romantic at heart and I just want someone to share my life with, but I refuse to have any more relationships with women, that are just destined to fail and end with broken hearts, all because I am not honest with them or myself. So, I really believe that I need a girl that is happy being a pre-op TS.
This is going to be extremely challenging for me to find on my own, and I desperately need any help you may be able to offer me. I read on your site that chatrooms are a good place to start, which does make a lot of sense, however I am not good at chatrooms. I have been cursed with a wretched shyness that I can't seem to overcome, and when in a chatroom, I tend to just sit there, eavesdropping on everyone else, not because that's what I want to do, but because I don't have the "balls" to talk to anyone.
I've tried a few dating sites as well, also with very little luck and a lot of money wasted. I'm really at a point where I need some help, or at least a friend or two who really know who I am. I understand that you are probably very busy, and don't have time to try and solve problems the likes of mine, but any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I have finally run out of things to say, sorry for the lengthy email, but thanks for listening at the same time.
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