TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
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WRONG WITH US?
The article about male bashing tends to prove my point. What’s the matter with us? Why can’t we evolve into loving caring people? Instead, it seems that barbarism is the only way we go.
I enjoyed very much your site's articles regarding transsexuals and how to properly deport oneself in their company. I found it inspiring, actually, since I myself am recently adjusting to my own transgender issues (that on some level knew existed all along). I am also very inspired by the trouble you are taking to provide a safe, nurturing mode for transsexuals to enjoy meeting people, like so-called "normal" people enjoy (IF they do.)
Along with this inspiration comes a query. Your articles understandably apply to TS' interest in meeting men, as that is probably by far the major interest of the TS population. So far, I have not found any mention of transsexual lesbians. That is, transsexuals who are interested in finding a mutual relationship with another transsexual. Please forgive my naivete, but would your site find much understanding for this situation?
If there is any doubt, my interest is sincere and definitely not misguided. I am not looking for an "adventure," nor an escort, and I have several straight and gay male friends and have neither phobia about being gay nor any romantic or sexual interest in men in any form. I am an extremely feminine woman stuck in an androgynous man's body, who seems to find the prospects of company with the same to be an absolute dream come true (oddly, or not, with both of us pre-op).
I appreciate your time and consideration of this query and apologize if it is in any way inappropriate.
ABOUT DATING A TGIRL
I live in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, and would like to know if there are many opportunities here to meet a TGirl. I have been here for only two months, and look forward to learning more on TS Girl dating. I am 43 years old and work as a network engineer.
Thank you and have a happy holiday!
QUESTIONS CLEARED UP
MIGHT TAKE THE CHANCE ON A TGIRL
Being a guy, I am attracted to beautiful women, although the reality is not all beautiful women are attracted to me. I would have to say only a few may be. That's how all guys are wired I guess.
Recently I was invited to an online service/community where someone would create a profile to share who they were with others. Being older, I'm not very familiar with any of this like this generation that chooses to chat and communicate in this way. Until recently, I used the computer for business applications only and find this is a way to reach out to many others.
But I must also say that unless it is used as a means to actually verbalize, your skills of actually speaking with someone will suffer. In any case, to get off my soap box.... I accepted the invitation to find out a childhood friend is a woman but I knew that person as a male/boy.
I was freaked, but not that bad. I knew she (he) acted more like a girl than a guy growing up.
I was directed to your website like others have been and appreciate the education. I've decided to let you know this because as a person who was in marketing, it's important to get feedback.
Honestly, although I had not considered dating a TS woman. I may consider it if I were available and it were presented up front. Many, including myself, would be hesitant of others finding out because of position or status.
If the TS woman is woman, there is no reason for it to be known otherwise.
Then again.... I don't think any guy would like to find out after he thought he was dating a woman born female, and find out otherwise. If it were me, I would wonder if the TS woman had a motive other than honorable, and make for an embarrassing moment.
If, however, at the start of the attraction, it was made known there would be no embarrassment, that would be OK. I do know that doing it that way would put the TS woman at risk. Which brings us to your website: Those that visit know exactly what is there and therefore creates a safe haven of sorts.
In closing, (I use that phrase only because I don't know how to close a letter like this), I know I'm ignorant, but, now have a better understanding. And if given an opportunity to learn more to remove any apprehensions, I believe I would take that opportunity.
Fear of the unknown is defeated with knowledge. Merry Christmas.
ATTRACTED TO TGIRLS
SCREWBALL & TGIRLS
email went directly into my spam folder, as I assume it was a mass mailing
to lots of TG and TS-related sites. We have no clue what she's talking
about. But if you wish to email this nutball, hey go for it.
TGirls, let the guys who contact you know about this website. Please run a link to our homepage, or to any page you find of importance.
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