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My name is Sile and I read your launch page for the website. I must respectfully disagree with your reasons for using the term "shemale." I see no logic or reason to ever, in any circumstance, refer to a transperson as "shemale" or even as a "tranny," for that matter. They’re both transphobic and wrong.
HAVE SEX: NOW WHAT?
I am going on my first date with my girl in a few days. We met online a couple of months ago and have been email/texting virtually daily since then. She is just beginning her journey of transition. I have developed very deep feelings for her and want this first date to be perfection.
She does not want to go out in public yet but she is comfortable enough to for us to get together and for her to dress as herself. Over the last week or two, our conversations have taken on a much more intimate and playful tone. In addition to just getting to know each other better, we have aroused each other just through these so I feel very good about the prospects of our relationship continuing.
With the thought of impending intimacy, I was worried about what to do. I have been with a few men years back, but with women exclusively since then, so neither path was offensive to me. But I wasn't sure what she expected. She did tell me in one of the texts that she was "kind of submissive, a definite bottom." So I have been scouring the Internet to grasp the terminology and get a sense of what she expected.
I said all of that to say this: Your article: "Having Sex With a Transsexual Woman: How to Make Love With the Transsexual Female," was wonderful. It was open, honest, full of insight, and just what I needed. I feel like our first date will go well and I will be able to make her a happy woman.
Thanks for taking the time to write the article.
Best wishes and sincere thanks,
WANTS TO HAVE
CLEAN ANAL SEX
I've been looking through the Internet to find some information on TGs/shemales, etc. I am a "straight" male and use the quotation marks only to signify that I have only dated GGs in the past (I'm assuming that GG stands for genetic girls, or something similar).
I have been attached to TGs/shemales for a few years but have only recently taken more tangible steps to meet some. I don't really concern myself with whether or not I am gay because it just doesn't matter to me. What I find most relevant is finding someone who I really want to be with all of the time, i.e., to establish a long term relationship.
But, not being well versed in "everything TG/shemale," you mentioned in your article something about anal sex doesn't have to be messy. This brought up a question that I had not thought about before, which is:
In anal sex, is there sometimes (or usually) an issue with feces within the colon (hope I'm describing this correctly) that causes a "messy result." If so, is it normal or frequent, and how does one handle that experience? Please forgive me if this is not an area that you normally address, so if it is not, any advice on where to get the answer would be greatly appreciated. If it is such a topic that is within your bounds of response, any information you could provide would be greatly appreciated.
You can reply to (email address deleted). Or, if you would prefer putting the information in on one of your articles, is it possible to let me know what week or month it would be appearing? I found this particular article via a link on the website.
I am a 32-year-old man and have discovered that I am not the type for a typical girlfriend.
I once enjoyed a Tgirl in Bangkok during a business visit. It was just a one-night stand, no strings attached. I found them gorgeous, more so than most females, really!
As I am from India, I would like to know if there are any decent Tgirls, preferably post-op, to meet. I want a discreet relationship first so I can develop an understanding of the nuances of it.
Do you have any email addresses of such a person? I would like to first interact by email before deciding on an encounter.
Your site is good and provided lots of information.
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