TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.
MEANS TGIRLS GET NO RESPECT
After reading what you wrote, I must say that that was the most comprehensive and thoroughly put informative piece of material on the subject of TS women that I have ever read. I have had a few relationships and flings with TS women and I agree with everything that you wrote. I just never understood why a lot of TS women go to the lengths that they do to look, feel, and want to be women, just to turn around and prostitute themselves. I was once told they do this to pay for the things they need to advance the look of a GG. I think there is a better way to go about it than taking that route and then getting upset when guys take them for a joke and want to just fuck them.
REPORTS IMPROVED UNDERSTANDING
Thank you for your caring and understanding to us TS women. It made my friends and family understand me better, and that meant a lot to me. This is something I send to men who IM me constantly! Thanks again and many blessings.
REASON FOR HIS ATTRACTION TO TGIRLS
do not identify me. But I want to say that your website has cleared up
what I have long found confusing about my attraction, as a straight male,
to TS women. It is the intense femininity that attracts me, a deep femaleness
that many genetic women don't value in themselves as much as those do
who have had to fight for it.
I am, and will continue to be, a male. Perhaps there are genetic women out there who would keep me fully awake to their charms. But I have yet to meet one, as it happens. Relationships live, I think, because they remain based on mutual attractions and they stick to their basics over the long haul. We all change as we grow older. Interests develop and wane. But for men and women to live together over time, it seems to me that they have to keep intriguing each other in a basic sense, and to not ignore that beginning of attraction.
As I say, thanks again for your candid and informative website. I know now where to look for a partner with staying power as a feminine person. Perhaps I will be lucky enough to meet the right TS woman, in the right circumstances.
TGIRL WILL RUN
LINK FROM HER SITE TO OURS
Hello, I saw you in a chatroom tonight and went to your site and found what you say to be wonderful, and true. I really am pleased at what I read and would like to know if I may include a link to your site on my AOL page.
I will be updating my page to my website in a month or so and think that men with this interest really should have the opportunity to read everything on your site to feel at ease. Thank you for the informative site.
ARE MUCH MORE FEMININE
Great website and article. It opened my eyes to what a TS really wants. There was one point you seem to have missed. I am a 57-year-old male who grew up in the '50s and '60s as a teen. I have been married for 30 years now but have been interested in meeting a TS for years. The reason I would like to try to meet one and date her is because of the way they dress and act. They seem more "feminine" than most genetic females. I love the sexy dress, the nylon stockings, the care in make-up, and the feminine style they seem to all have. They would be more loving than a genetic female and that is what attracts me to them. I would rather have someone who loves me as much as I love her. I would appreciate that and I would have to say GOODBYE to my wife if I ever met the right TS.
--From a male.
GOING TO TEST HIMSELF FIRST
I loved your article. Very specific and clear. I love the way you write about Tgirls with a great amount of respect. I am very attracted by TS's and I am looking for a long-term relationship. I never have had any relations with a TS. I would love to seriously date one. However, I think that I need to test myself first before going further. I do not want to have someone hurting my feelings, and neither do I like to hurt others. I would like to have an experience with one escort shemale. Thank you. I live in Madison Wisconsin.
MANY MEN CAN GET
PAST THE CONFUSION, TGIRL SAYS
Just to say this an intelligently written and cogent site. It's a pleasure to realize that a man can be sensitive and common sense enough at the same time, as your words show. Take it from me, a transsexual and professional woman, that many men can get past the confusion, hostility, and other baggage and be great companions. You're helping to bring this to light. Great work.
STARTED CRYING WHILE READING
I just want to thank you for publishing your website. It is very informative and straight-forward, and very relevant for me. I can relate to it so much that I started crying while I was reading it. Everywhere I go, I am bombarded with sexual offers. That's not what I'm looking for. That's not what I am about. I have given up hope of finding a man who will love me, understand me and treat me the way I should be treated. Now, I can only hope that he is still out there.
Hopefully, more and more people (not only guys or TS's) will be able to read your articles and be enlightened as to what we really are.
Thank you once again and more power to you from an Asian pre-op TS with the sensibility of a woman, from New York.
Your web page was inundated with the honest information about true TS girls that rarely gets any exposure. You covered many issues that I am tired of explaining to men, especially the relationship aspects of treating a TS girl like any other GG. Bravo for at least one enlightened man in the world. Keep up the outstanding work. Thanks!
NO WONDER TGIRLS
ARE SO DEFENSIVE
This is so awesome. I've tried so hard to meet a special girl but I guess due to the way they have been treated, according to your article, they become so defensive. Not that I have been aggressive or rude, though. I will be more patient and continue trying, but thank you very much for at least making an effort to explain. I hope to find someone that will trust me in South Florida. Love ya lots.
WANTS & NEEDS
I'm a transsexual myself, and currently involved with a guy who's wonderful, nice and a dear friend. The only trouble is he's not so attuned about my needs and wants as Tgirl. I hope he reads your article so he'll be enlightened as to how to have a relationship with a Tgirl.
THE TGIRLS BUT WILL WAIT
ARE VERY APPEALING
I have found transsexuals very appealing and extremely intelligent. I have never dated one and my desire for a long-term relationship has eluded me, since the ones I have come in contact with are escorts and only want money. I'm seeking one who is real, down to earth, not into games, who wants what I want. Someone to grow old with. I must add, your website is very insightful and helpful for men like myself who want LTR with a transsexual.
ANSWERED HIS UNASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT TGIRLS
I was just at the site about TS's and dating. I think it was very informative and I learned a lot that I was afraid to ask for fear of saying the wrong thing. Thanks for the info, and yes I would really like to meet someone and have dinner with her. This is a good site. Thanks.
GUYS THE LINK
BE LINKED TO
Great website, very informative. Shows a much better side to the TS world than most websites I have seen.
I have had similar experiences with what this article is talking about so I can relate to how men react...they do not think we have true self worth and assume we can read between the lines or take cues from them, but that is beside the point. If you do not understand us, don't ask us out, or at least ask and get to know us a lot more on a personal basis beforehand.
TGirls, let the guys who contact you know about this website. Please run a link to our homepage, or to any page you find of importance.
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