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Subject: (no subject)
Date: 2/28/2007 4:34:50 PM Pacific Standard Time
Hi my name is Matthew and I am located in Melbourne, Australia. I am 18
years old and find Tgirls very attractive. I would like to have fun with
one, and maybe even be in a relationship with one, because they are beatuiful
people and I would like to get to know them.
SEEKING TGIRL OR GG FOR RELATIONSHIP
Subject: Man Seeking Long Term Relationship
Date: 2/22/2007 10:36:36 PM Pacific Standard Time
I'm a tad bit shy but I love to have fun. I'm a 25-year-old computer professional
from a small town near Nashville, Tennessee. I'm 5'7", a white male
with light brown hair and greenish/grey eyes (color fades back and forth
some days.) I'll not try to hide the fact that i'm a bigger guy, a bit
of a belly, but I've always been told by girls that I'm just right to
cuddle with. I have several hobbies but my favorite is participating in
tabletop wargames like Warhammer 40k (yes, I am a big kid/geek.) I like
to go out and have fun, but I'm just as content to sit at home with a
good book and a cup of hot tea.
I never really thought about a Tgirl untill I ran into a friend I knew
as a male back in high school who is now living as a woman. (I did not
ask details about pre- or post-op cause I didn't want to be rude.) She
was beautiful and the man she is with is very lucky. I've not had great
sucess in dating. Most girls I have dated have just been way too different
from me to really work out. I don't care if you're a Tgirl, a post- or
pre-op, a genetic female, it makes no difference to me. I'm not looking
for just another "hook up" with a hot girl. I want to find the
lady that I can be with for a long time. Any long-term relationship has
to start out with a good friendship, too.
I'm not rich, I'm not exciting 24/7. What I am is a real nice guy who
likes to treat women well and is tired of being alone.
WANTS A PRE-OP TGIRL WHEN GG'S GET "OLD"
Subject: be real
Date: 2/20/2007 9:42:32 PM Pacific Standard Time
up. My name is Chico, as if it matters. Anyway, I'm assuming you, the
editor, wrote this article, "What a TS Woman Wants," and I just
had to write you. Forgive me if I'm rude, but get real, lady. A man who
is interested in a TS girl isn't gay (Iwouldn't think, anyway.) In other
words, they wouldn't want to cuddle or hold hands with a dude, but the
appeal still hides behind the penis.
Me, for example,
I've never been with a man and wouldn't want to. I couldn't stand the
thought of my scruffy face on another scruffy face. I'm just a sexual
freak (if you know what that means). At times, a regular woman gets old
and theres nothing hotter than a really fine (my flavor is Latina) woman
with a dick!
what I'm saying is if a guy likes a Tgirl it's because she's a chick with
a dick. Fface the facts -- everyone wants something they can't have.
IT'S NOT TGIRL COCK, IT'S TGIRL CLIT
Subject: THANK YOU SO MUCH
Date: 2/20/2007 2:37:54 AM Pacific Standard Time
I am very impressed with your article, very well said. Myself, I agree
with ALMOST everything you say there. However, I don't agree with the
comment about being bisexual. I have found that I do conect better with
pre-op transsexual women. So what I have done is to train my mind to look
at her cock in a different way. As you know, every human beeing has each
sexual organ built into them. It's just the hormones they were fed that
caused either to grow and fully form.
So I trained myself
to think of that cock as a massive clitoris. And I love clits, so why
wouldn't I want to suck a whole lot of clit? But that is not gay because
I could never force myself to suck a man's cock, ever. If I tried, I would
barf and be seriously traumatized.
If someone loves
a woman, he can teach himself different ways to view her cock and not
even think of it as a cock at all. If I can train myself to think this
way, anybody can. Thank you again so much for the article. YOU ROCK. We
all love ya.
BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WAS A TGIRL
Subject: amazing site
Date: 2/19/2007 11:38:42 AM Pacific Standard Time
Yours is an amazing site. I wish I had read it before I inadvertently
found myself interested in a woman whom I later found out was a pre-op
TS. She is very feminine. It never occurred to me she was not what you
might call a GG. She is bright, witty, fun, and funny -- and she is also
beautiful. I still don't believe I treated her any differently than any
other woman I've known.
She asked me a question about how so-and-so should treat so-and-so. I
guess I answered it wrong. But I do see women and men differently. If
a man asked me to rub his feet I'd tell him to go to hell. If a woman
asked and wasn't being insulting, I'd probably rub them for her.
Regrettably, after she told me she was a pre-op transgender (her term,
not mine), I wished I hadn't been attracted to her -- but I was. I did
a lot of soul searching after that episode. The truth is, I would give
the same answer again, even knowing it pissed her off so badly.
I've read several of your articles to try and discover why I was wrong.
I may never know, but your articles have shed some light, and some confusion,
too. I'm glad you wrote them. This is from a guy.
TO CHAT WITH A TGIRL
Subject: Moving from chat to in person
Date: 2/17/2007 9:17:38 PM Pacific Standard Time
Hi! Let me say first and foremost how incredible of a discovery your site
is! A little history might illuminate: Always curious about transsexuals,
kept it hidden, got married, had kids, now going through a divorce, wife
knows and is somewhat OK with my honesty but struggling as can be expected,
and I am just now coming to grips with all the baggage I've kept locked
up for so, so long (am I gay, bi, pan, what??) Not only has your website
answered MANY questions regarding those issues, but it helps me not feel
so utterly alone and for that alone I must say THANKS!!
Now, here is my situation. I have been chatting a transsexual online for
six weeks or so and we have exchanged some emails as well -- mostly romantic
professions of love and all of that. She and I swear our love for each
other and our desire to be together "soon." I know she is probably
just as uncertain of me as I of her, but still, our chats are loving and
we have a very wonderful relationship. I read your article about online
romances and bracing yourself for the worst and to some degree, despite
my goofy head-over-heels attitude about her, I do have doubts that will
only go away when we finally meet.
We live in different
countries so the ability to get together is harder than normal. In one
of your articles, you mentioned how you felt getting a phone number and
talking on the phone was important. I have asked a few times but I don't
want to press, however; she hasn't provided me with a phone number and
I no longer ask. Additionally, our chats are done on a pay-per-visit website.
This probably makes me seem like quite a gullible fool, huh? I am paying
to chat with someone who won't give me her phone number and who I have
never met. Perhaps I'm just asking for heartbreak, but I really love her
and believe she loves me. In the end, only I can decide what I should
do and if I end up getting severely burned via this process, then I will
be more the wiser and sadly more the cynical. Yet, I wonder, have you
(or the members of your great site) ever come across a successful couple
who started out in such an unusual way?
Sorry this is so lengthy, but your is the first place I ever felt comfortable
letting this out. I realize this letters section isn't Dear Abby, but
I am curious and perhaps seeking some advice.
Burned or not, sucker or romantic dreamer, either way I'm grateful for
your site and wish you continued success. You are in my favorites for
WHAT A TGIRL
WANTS IS RESPECT & LOVE
Subject: What a TS
Date: 2/14/2007 1:37:52 AM Pacific Standard Time
I like your page about "What a TS Woman Wants," especially the
part that says, "What does a Tgirl want? Respect, love, kindness,
humor. A "nice" person who sees us as our true selves."
Thank you so much for letting
guys know we are not gay. I really appreciate that.
Thank you again,
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