TGirls Letters - TGirl feedback to us

TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us

January, 2009

Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.

IS THIS TGIRL AN EVIL TRANNY HUNTER?
Subject: Am I an evil trannyhunter?
Date: 1/30/2009 2:34:52 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I'm a pre-op transsexual girl myself, and while I'm in a stable relationship with a great guy now and I don't want to leave him no matter what, there is something that bugs me about myself. I like both men and women, but I've noticed I have an easier time liking other transsexual girls than any other kind of people. Pre-op, post-op or no-op, it doesn't matter, as long as the girl was born with transsexualism.

I've dated a "trannyhunter" once, and frankly I didn't like it very much at all. Being seen as attractive because I had a penis wasn't something that felt awfully well, nor did it when he "accidentally" kept touching me in my private spots when we were being intimate. I just couldn't feel he saw me as a full woman, it was as if I was something else. This isn't the kind of feeling I'd like to ever make anyone else feel, so that's why I'm wondering what your thoughts on me are. Am I a hypocrite? Is it wrong for me to usually prefer women born with transsexualism over all other people? Doesn't that make me just like that guy I dated, who I felt treated me wrong? I know for sure I wouldn't treat another transsexual girl the way he did -- I even dated another pre-op last year and she seemed to love being in a relationship with me -- but this thought keeps nagging on me.

So yeah, please, share your thoughts. I believe you would've had much more experience in dealing with and hearing about all kinds of people than I would've since I live my life in stealth and don't really go around Internet dating spots.

Regards,

--Emma.

TGIRL'S THOUGHTS ON WHEN, WHY & HOW TO TELL HIM
Subject: HI
Date: 1/17/2009 9:48:12 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me

Loved the article on how, why, and when to tell him. My response to this article is you don't need an article if she is comfortable with herself and likes herself. Then be up front before you have a date with him. Having been a Tgirl most of my adult life, BE UP FRONT, never hide, don't lie, don't wait, do it NOW.

The best relationships I have had have been with men that knew at the first email. Even though you may advertise in a gender-based forum, some men still that they are going to date a woman.

I always preface with most that I thank you for your compliments but I am not a genetic woman, I am a transgendered woman. No number of articles, discussions, kudos, or self delusional behavior is going to hide what you are, and what he does not know. The one that you are lying to is YOURSELF, not him, or his family. You are lying to yourself. Be up front and you will fine that your life as a Tgirl will be more full with love, a lover if that is what you want, and caring friends

--Alicia.

WOMEN: "NOTHING DOWN THERE," BUT TGIRLS DO
Subject: TGirl friend
Date: 1/14/2009 2:27:21 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi,

I am a 47-year-old male, though I look a lot younger and in fact was recently taken for 38! I have always felt that I was different from others and today I understand why and how. I am a woman in a man's body. I want the body of a woman except I want to keep my penis

The female body is great, so soft and velvety, but having nothing between their legs always seemed a dissapointment or anti-climax, even when I was a young teenager looking at a friend's dad's Playboy mags! Tits looked great, but nothing downstairs and the ass was always more arrousing than the vagina.

I was about 14 when i discovered the pleasures of anal masturbation. I have it down to a fine art today and practice regularly. I have had relationships with women and always kept quiet about my preferences. I loved the girls and didn't want to shock them to the point of losing them. Now, thanks to the Internet, I find that my dream girls are out there. A girl who wants to be treated, loved and respected just like any other girl, except the sex would be better!

I have had a few brief encounters with men who had anal sex with me, and to be honest, I loved the feel of their cocks in me. I didn't like their rough chins or their lack of femininity. I short, I would love to meet a Tgirl, fall in love with her and have many years of a monogamous sexual relationship. Can you help me make my life complete?

Looking forward to hearing from you.

--Mark.

WISHING FOR LESBIAN TGIRL ARTICLES
Subject: (no subject)
Date: 1/9/2009 12:44:06 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

Hi, there!

I think your site is simply splendid! I'm 16, but I am a TS who is in a lesbian relationship. I am planning to transition as an adult. I did not see any lesbian articles, but I'm guessing your site is targeted towards straight (or bisexual, but seeking) men and straight (or bisexual, but seeking) transgender women.

I appreciate the fact that you acknowledge Tgirls as real women. Bravo! He he. Anyway, I think I will read some more articles, but I wish they had something like this for those of us who are in lesbian relationships. I bet they do. I have seen some, but not a lot. My girlfriend knows of my transgenderism, and she is very accepting.

We hate having to see terms like "shemale" and stuff, but we also don't like having to look at stuff that says "man-woman" for sex positions. We, of course, don't do that yet, but we plan to. She is very far away, but yes, we plan to. I consider myself 100% female, so of course my girlfriend acknowledges me as a woman, and therefore wants to treat me like a woman during sex.

Anyway, I'm rambling, but hey, I loooooved the site!

--Michelle.

WHAT A TGIRL WANTS ARTICLE
Subject: You're amazing....
Date: 1/9/2009 12:40:52 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: TSgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I read your article, "What a TS Wants." Well, I 100% agree with you. I can't find many TS females that agree with me. I have explained it just as you have. How "shemale" is offensive. How if a bisexual man asked me out, it would be offensive. I posted this in one of my blogs, hope you don't mind. I just wanted to say thank you for putting it so well. If you have a MySpace account, I'd love t add you, and talk more.

--Raven Heart.

EXASPERATED & SAD & SICKENED
Subject: (no subject)
Date: 1/9/2009 9:25:59 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

It's interesting. Do you think TS's are somewhat superior to "real" women; or should I say people who were "born female"? You come across that way. It's very insulting to me as a woman and as a person. It's also hypocritical of you to express the humbleness you seem to try to convey. It's exasperating, sad, and sickening to read about the facade you live. But to each his own.

Encouraging men to consider a TS if they can't get a "real" girlfriend, and then telling them not to act like men is strange. I can understand asking them to have manners, but there is a big difference between a real "female" and a TS! Namely, a penis. Is the man supposed to ignore this? An anus is not a vagina. Or are they supposed to pretend that it is a vagina? How would you expect to attract anything other than closet gays or "bi-curious" freaks?

Maybe the feminine TS facade will attract a man because men are visual. But I know from experience that a male that I know is only with a "passable" TS so he can suck dick without feeling like he's gay. I can't imagine that "she," the TS, doesn't know this.

--Simple Girl B.

TGIRL WANTS TO FINANCE SURGERIES
Subject: hello! Help!
Date: 1/2/2009 3:46:37 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: Tsgirlfriend4me@aol.com

I am not full-time as of yet and I am a public school teacher in a very progressive and inclusive school system. I've been working professionally for about five years, but haven't got perfect credit and am hoping to be fulltime by 2011. I am considering financing my plastic surgeries and investigating all ways in which I can afford these needed surgeries. I've just begun researching, so if you have any advice, I'm "all ears."

Thanks so much, and I'm so excited to find your site!

--Taffy.

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