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HE MET IS INTERESTING
Subject: Thank you!
Date: 7/31/2005 5:35:04 AM Pacific Standard Time
I recently met a TS online and I find her very interesting. She gave me
to Date a Pre-Op Transsexual Woman article to read before we go out
on our first date. I found it very informative. I also found it full of
common sense. Of course, I've realized that men and common sense are a
conflict in terms sometimes. But your article gave me some information
that I feel I should have that I didn't before. Thank you!
EMAILS TO THE TGIRLS
Subject: PLEASE remove my email address from that list
Date: 7/28/2005 1:14:24 PM Pacific Standard Time
is on that list of TS's seeking long-term relationships. Way too many
guys go there and send a random, impersonal email to everyone on the list,
not knowing anything about us. Then, when you reply, and they think you're
not the right race, size, shape, look, they never email you back or tell
you, "Oh sorry, you are not my type." As smart as the people
in that group seem to be, it would be a good idea to put a disclaimer
saying to please be a bit more personal towards the girls, and to ask
anyone they approach for pictures or something. It just gets annoying
getting random emails, and then finding out that they don't like you for
whatever reason. You can do something to encourage them to approach and
simply ask...can they see pictures, and to understand that there is a
variety of women at that site. Honestly, without any offense, there is
no one that seems to want anything that is not European or Oriental looking
Thank you very much and here is the email address to please remove from
that list. I wil reply to those who take the tiem to actually go and search
for my pictures in the group.
TO GO TO FIND A TGIRL?
Date: 7/27/2005 5:33:40 PM Pacific Standard Time
I am very interested in meeting and finding a transsexual girlfriend.
I would like to meet someone but do not know how to search. I don't want
to join one of those dating "porn" sites, this is not my intent.
Nor do I want a one-night stand with an escort. I live in Mobile, Alabama,
and am close to Biloxi, Mississippi, as well as Pensacola, Florida. I
am not much into the bar scene, either. Could you recommend a site to
join or maybe list local places where I could meet someone locally?
The chat room is great, but we are talking about people from all over
FROM A TGIRL
Subject: Serious relationship - Please! :)
Date: 7/25/2005 8:27:33 PM Pacific Standard Time
Thank you so much for all you are doing for our community! No
point looking back, so onward we go!!
BAD BOY HE
Date: 7/23/2005 11:19:07 PM Pacific Standard Time
I have been
trying to find a TS woman for a while now. I don't have the perception
that many people have. I treat everyone with respest 'til they don't deserve
it. This seems to be my problem with genetic women, they want the "bad
boy." I refuse to treat people badly to get someone to stay. I am
looking for a TS woman because I think she would appreciate the respect
and the way I would treat her. Not as a sex toy or for curiosity, but
for something special and serious. The other men make it hard for the
men that are really genuine in their search. Can you help me find find
someone that is interested in a heart-to-heart connection where I don't
have to get the "anti-men" syndrome?
INTO ON LESBIAN TGIRL DATING
Subject: TS Lesbian articles
Date: 7/23/2005 9:13:11 AM Pacific Standard Time
Could you please tell me why there are seldom any references, let alone
full-blown articles, on the rare phenomenon that is the TS lesbian? We
are just like any other lesbian but if you are unfortunate to be still
pre-op (grrrh), dating is nigh-on impossible -- the isolation one experiences
can be more intense than the actual process of transition. If one does
a quick search for any postings, literature, etc., for TS lesbians on
the web, there is nothing whatsoever of any use. It is shameful that this
is still the case. When is somebody going to finally do something about
OVER IT, TGIRLS
Subject: My two cents on the matter
Date: 7/21/2005 6:05:40 PM Pacific Standard Time
get it. What do transsexual women want? They claim to be interested in
men (aside from those who are attracted to other girls, naturally), and
yet most of them, in my experience, dismiss outright most of their prospective
partners by labelling them "tranny chasers." Why can't they
realize that not all men interested in ts women are
1. into "shemales" (wow, I despise that term) and view them
2. are latent homosexuals (nothing wrong with that, it's just not us),
3. are vicarious transsexuals themselves?
For whatever reason, I am attracted to transsexual women. Not men, not
"genetic" women. I don't know why, but I accept it. Granted,
it's much harder to find a relationship, but I know that my attraction
to these girls is not innately wrong. There certainly are other men like
me; I'd guess that a significant percentage of men attracted to Tgirls
are like me -- they're simply wired that way.
your hang-ups, girls, and please accept that not all men who are interested
in you are tranny chasers with unhealthy agendas. Bloody hell! I've no
interest in fetishising Tgirls, I simply want a real, emotionally healthy
and balanced relationship with one. I've almost given up on that possibility,
though, because so many Tgirls -- who themselves hate being stereotyped
and misjudged -- automatically place me into one of the above categories.
FOR TGIRL RELATIONSHIP
Subject: Need Advice
Date: 7/8/2005 8:12:32 PM Pacific Standard Time
Dear TS friend,
For some time, I’ve realized
that women don’t understand my needs as a man, and that the answer
is a TS....
Can you give me some advice
on how to fulfill my need for companionship? Specifically, how do I meet
the girl of my dreams and how do I develop the relationship? I know that’s
a big question, but any advice would be helpful.
SAYS IT MAKES SENSE
Date: 7/5/2005 11:00:18 AM Pacific Standard Time
Thank you so much. I appreciate your support, and you make alot of sense
in your post at TSGirlfriend. Keep up the good work darling. Have a wonderful
Subject: I am very
interested in signing up for your relationship service
Date: 7/3/2005 1:22:48 PM Pacific Standard Time
My name is Cheryl. I had my SRS in Chicago by Dr. Jayaram on April 14,
1975, at the tender age of 22. I've modeled with Elite, danced in Vegas
and Canada. I married at 32 and lived in Alexandria, Va. He worked with
Congressman Wynn from Maryland on Capitol Hill for a while until opening
up his own political action business. I'm 50 years old, but have taken
good care of myself. I'm 5'8", red hair, size 14, and was divorced
in 2002 due to a lot of reasons, not because of my gender.
accepted my SRS from the beginning. I currently am living with my parents
in Charlotte, N.C. Spend most of my time babysitting my two-year-old nephew
and am pretty lonely. I stumbled upon your website quite by accident.
The trouble is, I don't no how to download pictures and send you one.
I'm not "tech savvy." Maybe I can get my neighbor to help me,
or if you could send me some quick instructions, I'd be glad to send you
a recent picture. Please E-mail me and let me know if I qualify to be
on your list of fabulous post-ops. I'm very impressed with what I've read
so far. Eager to hear from you.
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