TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
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TGIRL ADMIRERS WANT TO LEARN
I read somewhere that pre-op TS girls do not want to focus on their genitals during sex. This did not make sense, so would appreciate an explanation and thoughts.
TGIRL CHAT ROOM
LOOKING FOR A TGIRL NOW
THE TGIRL DATE DOESN'T END WELL?
I stumbled upon your page, and it really answered a lot of questions I had lingering in my mind. I have considered asking a Tgirl out. However, I'm afraid I might hurt her feelings if we don't connect. I feel somewhat bad about this, since deep down I know I probably wouldn't treat a GG this way. I feel bad about this, since I might really hurt her feelings if a date doesn't end well. What do you think?
& THE TGIRL
I just spent the evening reading many of your terrific articles about dating a TS, (very well done!) and I have a question I was hoping you could discuss with me. I'm not sure if you normally get strange questions like this out of the blue, so if you've read this far -- thank you!
So -- I am, in fact, married to a GG. However, my wife and I are in a truly open relationship. We both sometimes may hook up with someone, but more often, we engage in earnest relationships with others, while still maintaining our own. She currently has a boyfriend of more than a year, and I was involved in a deep relationship with a GG for several years, which ended amicably, but sadly due to her need to move away.
Anyway -- I would love to date a Tgirl, but am not sure how my unique marital status will be perceived.
In the polyamorous community, there is obviously a whole set of vocabulary and different sets of etiquette which are pretty well understood, but I do not know if any of that is shared or understood in the TS community. I am not looking for a cheap thrill, and I am not cheating on anyone, and certainly do not want to use anyone or hurt anyone. I am a kind, loyal, intelligent gentleman who would love to have a TS girlfriend whom I would treat with dignity, respect and love -- just as I have with other girls -- but I am, in fact, married, and I fear that won't go over well outside of the largely non-TG "poly" community.
Thanks for reading this. I would love to hear your thoughts.
I just recently came across your site here and I just want to say that I really appreciate what you have done with it. In particular, I liked your advice for "When, Why & How to Tell Him That You're a Transsexual." Keep up the good work. =)
Thank you again,
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