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ALL THESE TGIRLS IN THE SEX TRADE?
Subject: Serious question from a female.
Date: 7/29/2010 1:37:34 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time
I am a female. I was
born a female and plan to stay a female and I consider myself bisexual.
I've been curious
for a few years now about M-to-F transsexuals.
To me (and forgive
me, but I'm ignorant of the definitions) so, this may seem crass, but
the only terminology I know regarding transgenders and transsexuals is
what you will see below.
My question: Do M-to-F
(breast and penis) date 100% born females?
I'm asking because
for me they are the BEST of both worlds.
only seen M-to-Fs on escorting sites, hanging out in San Francisco with
men and as prostitutes and in adult videos. I'm sure some have 9-to-5
jobs in offices, own their own successful businesses, etc. I've not heard
of any. Which is like saying, "All black people can dance and sing
and love Kool-Aid." Fact of the matter is, this is what I've seen
in person and in the media.
I would like to date
(LTR) someone with the best of both worlds, grow a business together,
and be best friends.
It seems IMPOSSIBLE
to find. I've placed ads only to have cross dressing men come out of the
woodwork. I'm not into cross dressers!
Once again, please
forgive my crass words but what is the term I'm looking for, for describing
the mate I seek ("chicks with dicks," transgenders, transsexuals")?
I don't like saying that. I'm African-American, and I hate being called
"girl," "nigga," "nigger," etc. You get
the idea. So, please, educate me and I hope to hear some good news from
you because the situation seems very grim.
And please, let me
know if the transgenders/transsexuals have jobs that aren't in the SEX
BE A TGIRL
Date: 7/25/2010 12:43:56 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
I read your website
about transsexuals. I need your help. My mom and two others have pointed
out that my girlfriend might be a transsexual. We've had sex but I also
know there's surgery for that. Can you spot a transsexual by just looking
at one? Please help me, I don't want to be deceived.
OUR ARTICLES ABOUT TGIRLS
Subject: Question about Colombian site for Tgirls.
Date: 7/20/2010 8:17:46 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
Hi Michael, how are
I'm writing you because I'm from Colombia, a hard place to be a man interested
in Tgirls or a TS interested in men. I used to be a man looking for TS's,
and I don't do it anymore 'cause I got tired of that but I kept talking
with some Tgirls and I found that there are many of them that feel the
same way: There are no sites where you can really meet a Tgirl or a man
interested in Tgirls without a specific interest in sex.
I'm not looking for Tgirls now but I'm trying to create places (I created
a group on Facebook) where to promote real feelings about Tgirls. I linked
to your site but it seems nobody goes and I think your site represents
very well some ideas that some Tgirls around me need to express to make
people be open with their feelings and find something special. I guess
it's all about the language.
I'd like to know if you think we can use your articles and translate them
for your website, or maybe at least if we can use them in or own websites.
I'd like to know also if you have thought about having a chat in other
languages. It would be nice to have a chat like yours.
I know all you have done takes a lot of time and have a version of your
site in our own language can't be done easily but I'd like to know where
to start. I think I owe this to all those Tgirls that feel the same way,
to all those girls I didn't have a chance with or I didn't take cause
I didn't know many things I do now and are quite similar that many things
you have in your site.
Congratulations for having that unique site. I know you have made the
life nicer for many people and I'd like to have something like that here.
Subject: Problems with chatroom.
Date: 7/20/2010 2:38:08 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
Or whoever's inbox this message ends up in.
Presuming it is Michael, let me say that I hate to have my first communication
with you consist of nothing but a laundry list of complaints about your
website, something that you obviously have put a great deal of time, thought,
and effort into creating and maintaining.
So let me first say,
I've been to your MySpace page and read some of the material there. I
congratulate you on carrying on a successful loving relationship for seven
years. Nowadays, few marriages last that long, even under the best of
circumstances. At the same time, I sympathize with you on the loss of
that relationship, no matter how justified its termination might have
been. Now I presume that you are still out here in the "dating scene",
which, despite its reputation to the contrary, can be a pretty lonely
place to be, especially if you have special needs or interests.
Finding that black,
Jewish, one-legged, blind anthropologist between the ages of 42 and 45
who lives within a reasonable commuting distance but who could really
rock your boat could take you years, if ever. But you are clearly sensitive,
active, articulate, good looking and with years of experience at swimming
in this particular dating pool, so I shall not waste too much time worrying
about your love life. You've got a lot more going for you than most of
us schmucks out here who are vainly trying to make a love connection with
a special woman.
Now, to the complaints. I would like to visit your chat room to observe
for awhile and perhaps participate when I feel comfortable enough to join
in. I've read your homepage, clicked on the "free transsexual chat"
link, which took me not to the chat room but to an overly-long page full
of rules, Do's and Don'ts and dire warnings. I read them all, including
your recommended article and a few others. It seems a bit overdone but
I understand that you are trying to protect a very vulnerable group of
special women whose egos (and sadly, sometimes their bodies) have been
battered and bashed by friends, family, and a society which seems unable
to fully understand and accept them. They clearly need our love and acceptance
and safe places to communicate with others like themselves and with those
of us who truly want to be their friends.
Now comes the frustrating part. Having read all that "stuff,"
I accepted your invitation to "join our chatroom" and attempted
to "hit the 'create a new user account' link above" but, alas,
I looked all over the rules page and the homepage and never found such
a link. I resorted to "click here instead" and got the new member
registration page which I completed and clicked on, then received the
verification email and inserted the verification code where requested.
I was then told that the registration was completed. Hurray !
But wait, what do I do now? No chatroom door swung open to welcome me.
No member login area appeared where I could enter my new username and
password. So, what do I do now? Am I missing something or are there still
more hoops to jump through or is this whole website just an elaborate
scam to collect email addresses and possibly personal identifying information?
I am frustrated, disappointed, and perplexed.
OUT THAT PRE-OP TGIRL
Date: 7/7/2010 11:23:50 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
Liked your article.
It was easy to understand and has given me the
courage to ask out this pre-op TS I've been talking to for sometime now.
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