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July, 2010

By- tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

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Subject: Serious question from a female.
Date: 7/29/2010 1:37:34 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com


I am a female. I was born a female and plan to stay a female and I consider myself bisexual.

I've been curious for a few years now about M-to-F transsexuals.

To me (and forgive me, but I'm ignorant of the definitions) so, this may seem crass, but the only terminology I know regarding transgenders and transsexuals is what you will see below.

My question: Do M-to-F (breast and penis) date 100% born females?

I'm asking because for me they are the BEST of both worlds.

Unfortunately, I've only seen M-to-Fs on escorting sites, hanging out in San Francisco with men and as prostitutes and in adult videos. I'm sure some have 9-to-5 jobs in offices, own their own successful businesses, etc. I've not heard of any. Which is like saying, "All black people can dance and sing and love Kool-Aid." Fact of the matter is, this is what I've seen in person and in the media.

I would like to date (LTR) someone with the best of both worlds, grow a business together, and be best friends.

It seems IMPOSSIBLE to find. I've placed ads only to have cross dressing men come out of the woodwork. I'm not into cross dressers!

Once again, please forgive my crass words but what is the term I'm looking for, for describing the mate I seek ("chicks with dicks," transgenders, transsexuals")? I don't like saying that. I'm African-American, and I hate being called "girl," "nigga," "nigger," etc. You get the idea. So, please, educate me and I hope to hear some good news from you because the situation seems very grim.

And please, let me know if the transgenders/transsexuals have jobs that aren't in the SEX trade.

Thank you,

--Sylvia K.

Subject: Help
Date: 7/25/2010 12:43:56 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I read your website about transsexuals. I need your help. My mom and two others have pointed out that my girlfriend might be a transsexual. We've had sex but I also know there's surgery for that. Can you spot a transsexual by just looking at one? Please help me, I don't want to be deceived.


Subject: Question about Colombian site for Tgirls.
Date: 7/20/2010 8:17:46 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hi Michael, how are you?

I'm writing you because I'm from Colombia, a hard place to be a man interested in Tgirls or a TS interested in men. I used to be a man looking for TS's, and I don't do it anymore 'cause I got tired of that but I kept talking with some Tgirls and I found that there are many of them that feel the same way: There are no sites where you can really meet a Tgirl or a man interested in Tgirls without a specific interest in sex.

I'm not looking for Tgirls now but I'm trying to create places (I created a group on Facebook) where to promote real feelings about Tgirls. I linked to your site but it seems nobody goes and I think your site represents very well some ideas that some Tgirls around me need to express to make people be open with their feelings and find something special. I guess it's all about the language.

I'd like to know if you think we can use your articles and translate them for your website, or maybe at least if we can use them in or own websites. I'd like to know also if you have thought about having a chat in other languages. It would be nice to have a chat like yours.

I know all you have done takes a lot of time and have a version of your site in our own language can't be done easily but I'd like to know where to start. I think I owe this to all those Tgirls that feel the same way, to all those girls I didn't have a chance with or I didn't take cause I didn't know many things I do now and are quite similar that many things you have in your site.

Congratulations for having that unique site. I know you have made the life nicer for many people and I'd like to have something like that here.



Subject: Problems with chatroom.
Date: 7/20/2010 2:38:08 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Dear Michael,

Or whoever's inbox this message ends up in.

Presuming it is Michael, let me say that I hate to have my first communication with you consist of nothing but a laundry list of complaints about your website, something that you obviously have put a great deal of time, thought, and effort into creating and maintaining.

So let me first say, I've been to your MySpace page and read some of the material there. I congratulate you on carrying on a successful loving relationship for seven years. Nowadays, few marriages last that long, even under the best of circumstances. At the same time, I sympathize with you on the loss of that relationship, no matter how justified its termination might have been. Now I presume that you are still out here in the "dating scene", which, despite its reputation to the contrary, can be a pretty lonely place to be, especially if you have special needs or interests.

Finding that black, Jewish, one-legged, blind anthropologist between the ages of 42 and 45 who lives within a reasonable commuting distance but who could really rock your boat could take you years, if ever. But you are clearly sensitive, active, articulate, good looking and with years of experience at swimming in this particular dating pool, so I shall not waste too much time worrying about your love life. You've got a lot more going for you than most of us schmucks out here who are vainly trying to make a love connection with a special woman.

Now, to the complaints. I would like to visit your chat room to observe for awhile and perhaps participate when I feel comfortable enough to join in. I've read your homepage, clicked on the "free transsexual chat" link, which took me not to the chat room but to an overly-long page full of rules, Do's and Don'ts and dire warnings. I read them all, including your recommended article and a few others. It seems a bit overdone but I understand that you are trying to protect a very vulnerable group of special women whose egos (and sadly, sometimes their bodies) have been battered and bashed by friends, family, and a society which seems unable to fully understand and accept them. They clearly need our love and acceptance and safe places to communicate with others like themselves and with those of us who truly want to be their friends.

Now comes the frustrating part. Having read all that "stuff," I accepted your invitation to "join our chatroom" and attempted to "hit the 'create a new user account' link above" but, alas, I looked all over the rules page and the homepage and never found such a link. I resorted to "click here instead" and got the new member registration page which I completed and clicked on, then received the verification email and inserted the verification code where requested. I was then told that the registration was completed. Hurray !

But wait, what do I do now? No chatroom door swung open to welcome me. No member login area appeared where I could enter my new username and password. So, what do I do now? Am I missing something or are there still more hoops to jump through or is this whole website just an elaborate scam to collect email addresses and possibly personal identifying information? I am frustrated, disappointed, and perplexed.

Please advise.

Thank you.

--CalAzRon (username).

Subject: Thanks.
Date: 7/7/2010 11:23:50 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Liked your article. It was easy to understand and has given me the
courage to ask out this pre-op TS I've been talking to for sometime now.


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