TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
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TRUE ABOUT CROSS DRESSERS
I flicked through your article (didn't read it right through as I was actually looking for something else), but there was one bit which just jumped out as a kick in the teeth:
"Cross dressers, however, are a different matter. These are not women, they are men enjoying a dress-up fetishistic fantasy. You may find what you want with one of them."
And, ugh. This kind of idea is exactly the sort of thing that makes it so hard for me to wear a skirt or makeup in public, the idea that cross dressers must be doing it as just a sexual thing. I'm sure you mean well; if you still have control over the article consider changing it, please? To be honest, the whole "topping the man" section is a big ol' genderfail in motion: believe me when I say I know plenty women who enjoy topping men (I don't think the trans-male community *quite* makes up enough of a market for the staggering array of strap-ons available), and escorts hardly specialize specifically in topping.
IS HE AT THE
First of all, I'd like to say that i appreciate that you have taken the time to post emails that you have received over the years -- it really helped me feel more comfortable writing this knowing that there are other guys like me.
The question I was hoping to ask is, am I at the right age to have a TS girlfriend?
I just turned 20, and I suppose, like most emails you may get, they are about men who were shy around girls and who could never find the right one, or people looking for something more. Instead, I'd like you to know that I didn't just come to this conclusion: When I was a tween, I used to have strong feelings about my femininity but after being in situations that made me feel uncomfortable (that's saying it lightly), I decided not to embrace them.
However I have kept those feelings close to me, so my interest in being with a TS has a more complex connection than most, though I am in no position to judge. This all leads up to my original question, that is, are my feelings as serious as I would like to believe, or am I still developing my sexuality on my journey of self discovery?
Thanks for taking the time to read this,
BE MORE SENSUAL THAN GG'S
I want to commend you on a well-written, educational and illuminating site. I have read virtually the entire site. I am a straight gentleman and have learned a great deal from this site. Thank you and double thank you.
I know a few TS's and find them much more sensual and sexual than many GG women. The TS ladies have an extra something, yet I can't define it and yet it's beautiful.
Now to my question: On page 14 of 17 of the article The TS Dating Advisor within the article, "The Tall TS & Short Man Issue," there is pictured a most gorgeously beautiful woman that I would love to meet or at least strike up an email exchange with. I live in Southern California. Her beauty is so compelling and mysterious.
Unless this is too private, is she a pre-op or a post-op TS? However, it really doesn't matter. May I communicate with her through you? What are your and her thoughts? She has at least one online admirer.
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