TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.
WOULD LIKE A POCKET VERSION
How do I sign on your chatroom?
Actually, your site is so refreshing to read and see. As a TS with a busy schedule, law school, work and my transition, I seem to meet way too many of the "wrong" kind of guys online. You know the type, looking for fun with an escort.
OK, all we need now is a pocket version [of this site] to give when out as I have found many guys look at and admire a beautiful T-girl but are clueless how to approach or what to expect with us, at least men who are looking for more meaningful things.
Your site's a definately a step forward for us all. Thank you.
PICTURE FOR ME
In response to Scott's letter posted on the Tgirl Letters Feedback page:
You must realize, that for many of us, posting our pictures on a site that identifies us as transsexuals would be a costly mistake. I could only imagine the problems it would cause if someone from my office with a malicious nature stumbled across this site and my picture were posted. The repercussions would be horrendous!
THAN JUST TGIRL LISTINGS PLEASE
Very impressive site. As a male looking for a relationship with a Tgirl, I found your site very interesting. The one big drawback for me is I would like to see more than just an email address for contact. I'm one of the males that does not think with my lower head. Thus I'm not as good with social chat.
Do you have any plans
of building a more dating-oriented site? I looked at Alt.com, very lousy
site. I want what your site is about, a long-term relationship. But I
would like to see a picture of who I'm send email to (face is more than
enough) and would like to know some basic likes, just enough to figure
who out who to talk to. Do you have a prefered dating service that you
refer your visitors to? Soon as I can figure out what to write, I'll probably
drop a line to the Men looking for LTR section.
Producing a full-service contact section turns this site into a full-time job to manage things. Somehow people will have to pay for that. You'd pay to send email to the girls, or for a membership, or something along those lines. And so we have no plans to go beyond what we are right now. Any girl who wants a listing can send along a picture and a brief note to go with it, we often publish those.
MET AN ATTRACTIVE TGIRL
I'm a male who met
a TS and I am very attracted to her. I was not sure how to approach her
about a date. This page has given me a lot of information about how to
ask her out and treat her as the beautiful woman she is.
OF OUR TGIRLS FINDS A MAN
I am writing to happily report that I believe I have met a very special man, and out of respect for him, I would very much appreciate your taking my email listing off your site.
If things do not work out, I will be back, but hopefully not anytime soon. I sent him to the site for reading as he was also having "family and friends" issues. I believe the site has helped him a bit in his understanding and how to best approach his new feelings and hopefully his future with a wonderful transsexual woman -- me! (Smile.)
Thank you so much!
TGIRL GETS GOOD
I just noticed you've added a section for men to list themselves, or at least their letters. I think this may be a good Idea. FWIW, I must tell you since I'd been listed I have been corresponding with three guys who are local to me. I did meet one just a day ago, just a casual restaurant meeting. I believe everything went well, we'll see. I did have one guy who canceled out on a coffee shop meeting within a few hours of the appointed time, and have not heard anymore from him. I also got emails from several others who are not even remotely local and I don't expect anything to come of those at all, however pleasant correspondence is always a good thing.
Just for what it's worth,
TGIRL SAYS ALL WENT WELL
Read her story/theory of post-op dating and I find it to be very true, from my own experiences. I've dated men after my surgery, men who did know, and men didn't know, of my SRS. None unsatisfactorly. Just wanted to thank Nikki for her input into post-op TG dating. Thanks.
HAS HOPE FOR THE FUTURE
Hello, I'm a post-op TS and I would like to be added to your list for a relationship.
Thanks for the wonderful site you offer. Your words of wisdom gave me hope for the future. God bless and keep up the good work.
NICE TGIRL IS HIS DESIRE
This is the most amazing thing I have ever read. Wow. All you ladies forgive me. I guess I have been guilty. Please forgive me.
I would love to have a sweet girl to care for and be my partner my friend, someone that shares, and of course be a lady always. I would treat her as lady always. And she will be well loved, courted every day.
I stumbled across your website, or did I? Maybe it was divine intervention
or something Like it? Anyway, I want to thank you for a well written and
thoughtfully constructed website, it is long overdue. There just isn't
enough sound information out there until now regarding dating, transsexuals
and men. Here you do a wonderful job at discussing the real person and
how important it is in ANY relationship to treat each other with dignity,
respect and love.
TGirls, let the guys who contact you know about this website. Please run a link to our homepage, or to any page you find of importance.
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