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March, 2007

By- tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

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Subject: Honest question
Date: 3/26/2007 9:32:52 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hi Danielle,

I have what I believe to be an honest question. I read what you wrote in "What a TS Woman Wants," and I have a question with regards to it.

I would like to find a TS, but in reading what you wrote, I am wondering now about it all. Would I be able to find a TS that I would love to treat as a woman, but in bed, we would both do all we could to please one another? Trying to be as polite as I can here, wouldn't she want me to go down on her, during lovemaking?

Politely, couldn't anal sex be enjoyed by both people during lovemaking?


Subject: Glenn
Date: 3/24/2007 1:55:36 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hello there,

I was very impressed by your words on transsexuals, but not surprising as I have always had respect for any transgender people. Your site is excellent and most informative. I live in Australia, and to get a good article like this is important to me. I am a male admirer and have always been attracted to Tgirls, and for the same reasons in your articles, which set my mind at ease straight away. This is the first time I have seen a genuine site like this for genuine Tgirl lovers and admirers. I thank you very much, and would love to join your chat sometime.


Subject: TS girlfriend / What aTS woman Wants
Date: 3/22/2007 8:51:17 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hi Danielle,

I just read it, agree 90+% with it. I'm writing a book called "The Third Gender." I thought like you for many years. I do believe we are the second female or the third gender. For instance, my ex-boyfriend, a male that had never been with a TS, or better yet never wanted to be with a man. He said I was the best lover he ever had. He made things for me and bought me little things, surprises as you say. He made me feel so good, you're right, I wanted to please him in return.

I have NO MALE SEX DRIVE! I don't "top" anything. But this is where I've changed. My bf had many questions and didn't want to offend me in anyway by what he said. He new that I called it my "clit/cock" because that's what it is until SRS. He went down on me, his first time, got me all excited, then made love to me. It was the best sex I ever had. He treated me like a genetic woman. Oh yeah, forgot to mention, he is a biker. I saw him be and act like a butthead like most bikers are. He drank too much, but always treated me like a lady.

Ciao for now,


Subject: comment
Date: 3/22/2007 8:36:29 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Just saw your article on dating a post-op Tgirl.

As a "posty," I pretty much agreed with most of it. I could nit pick as to why a lot of guys like us. But I think it has more to do with cumulative male experience, rather than alpha male stuff. Like I said, a bit of nit picking.

As far as dating; I'd say if it was a casual date, there is no reason to tell. On the other hand, it's a good idea to get his phone number in case it turns out there will be another date. At that point, I would tell him (at a safe distance). My experience is if a guy knows from the git-go, it usually turns into a "my history" date. If a guy is really interested in you, he's known you not as a posty, but as a woman (GG), and then accepts you as a special woman.

But overall, I found your article to be as spot on as any I've read so far. Good work.


Subject: Hello
Date: 3/22/2007 8:32:41 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Dear Editor,

I want to thank you for putting this site on the Internet. The Internet is mainly populated with transsexual escorts and porn sites, and I have been frustrated by that. I want to meet a transsexual in a manner consistent as to the same way I would meet a genetic woman. I read a few of your articles and can't agree more on such subjects as Jerry Springer and how to treat a transsexual. Though shy at first and not used to a chat room, I will definitely use it in hopes of finding the right person for me.



Subject: Hi this is Andrea
Date: 3/17/2007 6:04:52 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I saw your article and it is very impresive, There are many questions I do have about the surgery, legal issues, etc. Do you know any website or forum consisting of people that are post? I am thinking of having the surgery, however I need to do my homework about the doctor, and so many other details. If you know any, please let me know. Thanks a lot.


Subject: still open
Date: 3/17/2007 4:09:02 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I would love to have been on Jerry Springer.

--Mark, Australia.

Subject: hello
Date: 3/12/2007 7:08:06 PM Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hi! I just came across your articles on TS relationships and about your wonderful website, TSgirlfriend. I am a TG from the Philippines and I have a problem with my present relationship. I don't know where to turn, who to discuss my predicament about my boyfriend's actions, or lack of them. I wanna cry, I wanna scream and cry a lot, and I get nervous breakdowns and don't know what to do! I was wondering how I can join your website and discuss my problem, I really need HELP! I hope I hear from you soon.

Sincerely yours,


Subject: a question
Date: 3/9/2007 10:52:27 AM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com


I am a 23-year-old male from Morocco. I have been interested in transsexual women for quite a long time. I have to admit that my first knowledge of the world of the "aphrodistes" was through an encyclopedia, and it was back in my primary school days, but my first interactive contact with transsexuality was through the Internet. As you mentioned in your website, the Net is loaded with promiscuity that maims the perception of the male viewer, and I agree with you. However, your article, "The Pre-Op TS in the Boyfriend Hunt" was loaded with obscenities against men (men are dogs, men are pigs, men are killers and hunters that should be civilized, etc.), things which I agree with. But the use of these terms and expressions offends me very much, and I think other men would agree with me.

I understand the fact that these terms were used in an explanatory way so as to make it easier for the reader to understand the concepts, but in a way it reinforces the stigma on men, and that all men are alike. Anyway, all I wanted to say is that the use of more appropriate terms would be kind and sweet on the part of the author.


Subject: What a TS Woman Wants
Date: 3/5/2007 8:13:16 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com


This is a very good piece which I read from start to finish. I appreciate this honest style and not condescending to us guys who have feelings but who are not always understanding.

Thanks again.


Subject: new relationship
Date: 3/5/2007 6:05:47 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hi Michael,

I just wanted to tell you about a new relationship. I met a wonderful guy through TSMatch and TSGirlfriend a couple of months ago. We chatted for awhile, started dating, and now we're in a relationship. Thank you for providing both sites.

--RebeccaNC & Stacydrift.

Subject: Response to Jerry Springer Show
Date: 3/3/2007 11:45:07 PM Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

You go, boy!! I loved your response! muchos kudos for you!

I'm a pre-op MTF. Been transitioning for seven years. I'm SO ready to have surgery but you know how it is. Anyway, I found your website and read your letter and just had to write and say thank you.

I've lived in Nashville for the last four and a half years. It's pretty conservative and I've had lots of challenges but I love the music scene here. I host a writer's night at a popular venue and mix sound for bands when I get a gig.

I don't have a real life, though. I just refuse to be some guy's discreet sexual partner because they're too embarrassed to take me out. And the ones that want to take me out that think I'm a GG or that I'm post-op, then drop me like a hot potato when I tell them i'm pre-op. So, I feel stuck in the middle. I hope I don't die this way. After losing everything, it would be quite disappointing. I try to be hopeful but I just turned 50 and not getting any prettier or younger. I work hard to keep a good figure and do the best I can with what I've got, but as you know, the odds are extremely high against me. I have to balance my HRT with aspirin, diet and exercise to keep my blood thin to prevent another clot, but it's the price I pay for inner peace.

Sorry to write a book, but after reading your letter I know you can understand everything I'm saying. Thank you for letting me vent and I hope I didn't depress you. You're probably in the same boat! I wish you the best, hon.



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