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March, 2008

By- tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

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Subject: Being in a LTR with a Tgirl
Date: 3/28/2008 8:25:56 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I read some of the editorial comments on your interesting site, having come across it for the first time today.

I had been looking for somewhere on the web where I could discuss my experience as someone actually in a relationship with a TS woman here in the UK for several years now. I've registered for the chatroom but not ventured in there yet -- I'm slightly intimidated by such things.

But I thought I would just offer a few thoughts that, while not exactly contradicting some of your coments about what girls and men want, perhaps broaden the debate a little.

I have in the past referred to myself both as an "admirer" because I actively sought out TS and TV girlfriends, and as bisexual, because I have been down that path, too. Indeed, my lady and I met at a London nightclub where TS's congregate, and so do the men that seek them -- for whatever reason. And yes -- I did have a drink in my hand at the time! My girlfriend was beautiful that night, and still was the next morning over coffee. Now, four years and many afternoons spent in Starbucks together sipping lattes, she is more beautiful than ever, and I consider myself a lucky guy.

So if I don't conform to good boyfriend material, neither does my girlfriend quite conform to the stereotype of what a TS woman is meant to be: She has no embarrassment about her pre-op genitalia, and has no desire to do away with it. She also would be surprised if I were not to want to touch her "down there," as we both get pleasure from my doing exactly that. My girlfriend takes trouble to look, act and sound like a girl in public, which she does, in my eyes, to perfection. But she knows she is not a "real" woman, often joking about and taking pleasure from the subversive nature of her situation and our relationship.

Is it all rosy ? No of course not. The hormones my girlfriend takes to increase her femininity do cause unpredictable mood swings. There are some hefty complications to do with her immigrant status that are made yet more complicated because her passport says she is a boy. And in truth, we haven't yet integrated our relationship into my small circle of friends, colleagues and family. But we are progressing.

So I would just share this with you with the thought that, while the guidance you give is surely true in many instances, it is possible to find love and stability outside of the more obvious stereotypes. Vive la difference!

--Andy (aka Pencelli), UK.

Subject: I can be a real bone-head sometimes
Date: 3/19/2008 2:28:26 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Dear Michael,

I just finished reading the material and finally the explanation/history portion of it I have to say I am in awe of all of it. I want to congratulate you. You educated me and more importantly, I am and will continue consider much more than before I read it. I wanted to tell you that I have been searching for this site for a week, not that I knew you site existed, but this is what I was looking for. In the last few days, I found a couple of transsexual girls from Michigan on Myspace and we became friends. The reason for that was I planned on asking them if there was a place where I could meet Tgirls...nothing sinister intended...I just want to meet a transsexual female. I might let those two girls know that and what I have now found...they most likely know of your site, I'm guessing.

A few hours ago, I entered the TSGirlfriend chatroom after "briefly" reading the first page of your instructions. The fumbling trying to figure it out and asking for help twice. I meant no harm and certainly no disrespect. But I and am embarrassed and wish to apologize to you, and those I affected. I am deeply sorry. I will now go back and re-read that first page now and see if I can change my name as it is part of my email address. I just wanted to get this off to you as quickly as I could and tell you I will be making a donation.



Subject: looking for that special transsexual 5some relationship
Date: 3/14/2008 3:50:57 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I want someone to help me get a thresome or more than three transsexual girlfriends, who I can call, or they can cell me at (number deleted), so write me back. I am in Illinois. I'm a 24-year-old male looking for very sexy, older, more experienced transsexuals who are looking for long-term relationships. They need to have a car to come pick me up. Doesn't matter the race, and I love to have sex, kiss and suck dick. Please write me back and give me some numbers to call girls who are very busty, curvy, overweight, tall, a lot of makeup, and very experienced older, and that's it, but if you just write me back with the shemales who are interested in getting together with me with their numbers, that would be great. Thanks.


Subject: Very Informative Articles
Date: 3/7/2008 4:29:09 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I just finished reading all of your articles on the TSGirlfriend website. I wanted to say thank you for all of the infomation you presented.

I am just coming out of a relationship with a Tgirl. I have to say it was one of the most memorable times of my life. We dated for almost nine months and I would not have traded it for anything.

I plan on joining your group, going to the chatroom and introducing myself to all there. Even though there are no ladies that live in my area, I still want to be an active member of your site.

Again, I thank you and do keep up the great work. You should be applauded for all you have done.



Subject: Tgirl website.
Date: 3/3/2008 12:18:43 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I have to say that just from poking around on your site, that I am impressed with the professionalism and the honesty that I was able to gain without joining the site myself.

I do presently keep an active blog, where I have had a few invites to a couple of other dating sites which for the most part was full of chasers looking for that woman with something extra special, I did however talk to a couple of interesting and nice men.

Again, I really appreciated your response to the Jerry Springer Show, which is how I learned about your site in the first place.

Otherwise for me, yes I happen to be a transwoman. But I'm also happily engaged, so as you can imagine. I don't have any reason to sign up for the site, but I may send a friend to two in your direction.


--Kristine M.

Subject: Lonely, and ready to come out of this shell
Date: 3/1/2008 4:06:31 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I'm Matt, a 24-year-old teacher in Alabama. It's taken me at least eight or nine years of mental torture to finally take a step to finding true love. Since I was a young teenager, I knew that there was something different about my preference in girlfriends. The girls that I dated were all special in some way, but I wasn't willing to totally commit to them for many reasons. I thought it was because I was gay, but I found that I'm not physically attracted to men.

What I realized is that I had a desire to be with a woman who knew what it was like to be a man. I'm not bragging, but I was always the type who never had problems getting dates. I'm tall, athletic, and well spoken, and yet I have had no luck getting a relationship with a TS. I have prayed about it, and wondered if there was anyone out there who truly could make me feel whole, and so I think that the best thing I can do is keep looking.

I've considered moving into areas that have a TS community, just on the grounds that I'm so depressed with the situation in Alabama. If there is someone, anyone, out there that wants to meet a caring, loving, strong man who would treat you like a true angel, please write to me. I know that there is someone out there who is waiting on someone like me to show up.


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