TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
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AN AD THAT
APPEALS TO TGIRLS
I have browsed the Internet and came across your site. I was just wondering about advice you can give me for a good dating profile ad. Granted, I am not the best looking guy around. I'm on a heavy set side and I have some low self esteem issues. Could you advise me on making an ad that would attract a TS woman? I've tried to before but never have any good results. Thanks for reading and have a fantastic week.
A TGIRL TURNED
I am a 53-year-old, twice-married guy, who has never found true love.
I once saw a transgendered lady and my heart missed a beat. I got butterflies in my stomach and I knew that this is what I had been longing for.
My mates said she was a "tranny" and to steer clear.
For 10 long years, I knew in my heart of hearts that this is what I was born for. It's what was lacking in my life. I visited all the sites and knew this was not for me. I need advice.
I live in the country, in Victoria, Australia.
Can you help me , or point me in the right direction?
So I guess I should start by saying I meet this girl at my friend's 21st birthday party a few years ago. I knew what she was, and I was attracted to her. I didn't even try to talk to her. Why? 'Cause at that time she was 16 and I was 21, and at that age the four-year difference is a big one.
So fast forward to about a month ago. Now I am 26 and she's 22, and she finds me on Facebook and friends me. We end up chatting on Facebook enough for me at least to think this is worth a shot. Since we neither have cars and live about a hour to an hour and a half bus ride from each other, I told her that if she is ever in my side of the bay, she should give me a call, so numbers are exchanged.
So now, a few times, she says she is coming into town with some friends. First time, I give her a call about the time she would be getting into town or whatever. No answer. Next night we talk on Facebook. No mention of me calling her or anything, just a friendly "how was your weekend," that kind of thing.
Another week goes by and we're getting to know each other by talking online. I want to actually talk face to face and it seems she does also by the flirting/truth chatting we have been doing. So on that weekend, again, she says she's coming into town. I tell her I would like to meet her, and if she and her friends would like some extra company, I would be way down to pitch in gas money and what not. (I have no car but do have a job.) She doesn't call.
So at this point we are still chatting a few times a week. Is there anything I can do to find out what the deal is without just asking if she really would like to meet? This has happened two or three times and I only called her on the first one. I was thinking I didn't want to push too hard to meet her. Is that the right thing to do?
Also, here is some info that might help at this point. She has told my she is trans, likes girls but only kind of likes boys. She is the first trans I have been attracted to, but I haven't had problems such as this with regular women. They seem to always give me a straight-up yes, I'm interested, let's meet for a date, or the no thank you. I don't have much experience with this tiptoeing around stuff.
So yes, any insight would be nice. Thanks for reading.
PORN TO REALITY
I've just joined in. I was made aware of this aspect of human life, most people refer to as the "third gender" few years back by one of my fellow mates. That time it was introduced with not-so-clean intentions but as a means to fulfill carnal fantasies.
I used to prefer the former over GG's because of the incredible bodies they possess and bounty of femininity. A third of porn industry revenue is earned using transsexuals. To be honest, whenever I used to read or hear something that said "tranny," "shemale," "kathoey" or "transgender,".it always turned me on and that feeling was only of fornication, not of love making.
But as I grew up, I starting digging deeper than its superficial portrayal and I found there are few people jostling within themselves to bring their actual selves out, not just their bodily presentation. I saw videos of those special people who were born with an extra appendage, unlike the way they should have been.
I saw the pain in their eyes when their own families and friends exclude them and did not even try to understand. One of them made me so emotional that my eyes were watery. I respect their courage to relate those experiences. I think it's the right time to raise their voices to let the world hear that no one enjoys being alone or insulted. I appreciate their bravery.
I would love to be associated with them, being a friend or more, if I find someone special, but whenever I tried to find any a TS, my computer screen was flooded with porn and that sets my mood off. After long time, I found your site that seems to be genuine about its displayed objective. If you read this mail, then kindly direct me to where at least digital two-way communication is possible!
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