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Subject: Love your website!
Date: 11/26/2005 4:27:13 PM Pacific Standard Time
I love your website! Just one small problem: I'm a GG lesbian whose sexual
orientation is towards transwomen. Would you consider adding some pages
to your website to help women like myself find equally sincere transwomen
who are looking for a long-term relationship?
SEEKING A RELATIONSHIP
Subject: uncertain and lonely
Date: 11/24/2005 10:57:19 AM Pacific Standard Time
Hi! I am a 55-year-old pre-op transsexual woman. I have been separated
from my former wife for three years now. We're still not legally divorced
due to her need for health insurance and my agreeing to add her to my
I live alone. During this time I have not dated or been sexual with another
person. Two years ago, I visited a gay nightspot here in our city. I was
approached by a tranny chaser wanting to have sex. I allowed things to
progress to a certain level, but felt I couldn't proceed due to respect
for my daughter's mom. What I really long for is a relationship, not a
one-night stand. I have considered going but to the nightspot (out of
loneliness as much as anything else) but know that all the guys want there
is to get me in bed.
I ran across your website while searching dating and transgender. I'm
not sure really how to proceed to finding a man who would accept a transsexual
woman and be willing to go out to dinner and a movie and not expect sex
in return. But, I know this is what many genetic woman my age are asking
Thanks for putting together this website.
TGIRL'S IDENTITY PROBLEM
Date: 11/23/2005 12:09:23 PM Pacific Standard Time
I'd like to know if you can give me some advice for my dilemma. I am a
woman trapped in a male's body, I knew this from birth. The dilemma is
I feel like a "senturain," I think that's how you spell it,
half and half. I came across an ancient Mayan relic years ago that was
a half man and half woman and I immediately identified it as myself. I
feel only like a woman from the waist down. I have no desire to have breasts
or adorn makeup the way transsexuals usually do. Dating is a horror for
me. I don't feel "connected" to gayness, and most men desire
girls who "live" the lifestyle, passable. Therefore I am caught
between a rock and a hard place. I know I'd feel complete if I had an
operation just on my lower half and not the top but I seriously doubt
such an operation exists nor will it be permitted. Any advice on how to
ease the pain and suffereing I've endured since I was born?
Subject: Wolf in Sheeps Clothing
Date: 11/22/2005 10:18:17 AM Pacific Standard Time
To whom it may concern,
I have recently
visited your site "TS Girlfriend" and found it to be archaic.
Your articles were obviously written by someone with their own agenda,
tring to bamboozle the TS community. Wolf in sheep clothing.
FUTILE TGIRL SEARCH IN THE MIDDLE EAST
Subject: Thank you
Date: 11/21/2005 11:47:00 PM Pacific Standard Time
I would like to thank you very much for what you wrote. To be honest,
this is the first article that attracted me, and the only one that I finished
reading. I am an Arab who would love to date a TS, but unfortunately in
our country with our culture you won't find the right TS. It's really
bad, but even when you find a TS, all what you get is a man in a man's
body, and they are doing it just for money, which is really pathetic.
I would love to meet the right TS with the sensibility of GG's. Anyway
I would like tell thank you again, and tell you are the man who totally
changed my way of thinking. Hopefully I can find one. Keep it up. Have
a GREAT life.
A LOT ABOUT TGIRLS
Subject: Great stuff
Date: 11/18/2005 9:21:52 PM Pacific Standard Time
I like what you
wrote extremely well and it is an education, thank you for writing and
defining TS, I am a curious guy and I learned a lot. Thanks to you.
FINDS IT HUMAN & RESPECTFUL
Subject: I never know what to put in here
Date: 11/4/2005 10:33:18 AM Pacific Standard Time
I really like the TSGirlfriend site, just for a change, it's human and
respectful. I don't especially like the word "shemale" being
used so much however. I find it offensive in the extreme and am surprised
that, given your emphasis on letting men know we are in fact WOMEN, that
it is used at all.
I have applied to join the MSN
group nonetheless, but am way too shy to try the live chat. Not just
that, I tend to get left behind in the conversations and find the whole
experience confusing. But I may give it a go, perhaps. I shall let you
know, that I may enter and drop out of the room immediately if there are
too many in there. Isn't there any other way you can allow women to find
men (and vice-versa of course) without the chat? And how do you keep so-called
"admirers" away if they don't actually troll?
Probably overstepping a little given that this is all new to me, but I
have to speak my mind.
I do like the articles on the site, very, very true. You have certainly
hit the nail on the proverbial head there. All in all, I really like the
site, but with those reservations mentioned above. Just giving credit
where it is due, I do that from time to time. :-)
TGIRL FINDS LOVE VIA OUR SITE
Subject: A letter to Micheal
Date: 11/3/2005 12:37:49 PM Pacific Standard Time
Dear sweet Michael ...
to say thank you for your insight and vision for putting together such
a wonderful website, TSGirlfriend.com.
placed a personal ad with your help in TSGirlfriend just a few short weeks
ago. I received an email by a man from New Jersey. We exchanged emails,
then phone numbers. He calls me each and every day. Last week, we met
and have seen each other a few times since then, he is the most wonderful
man. So, thanks in part to you, my prince has come. Please feel free to
post this letter on your site, I hope it will inspire other transsexual
women out there to never give up hope in finding their true love.
Again, thank you
--Christina (Christy_NJ in your chatroom).
HE NEEDS A TGIRL
Subject: hoping tfor one
Date: 11/2/2005 3:34:20 PM Pacific Standard Time
49 and I wish to date a TS. I have seen some that are so very pretty.
In my teens, I had a couple of intimate days with a couple of friends
(not a three-way), so I'm confused about myself. All my female relationships
have failed. So maybe I'm thinking since I've always liked TS's, a long-term
relationship with one is what I need. I don't know, but I'm writing this
in tears and hope there is life and love out there for me. Thank you.
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