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October, 2010

By- tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

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Subject: Issues.
Date: 10/30/2010 7:38:32 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I am a 29-year-old bisexual white male. I am going through a divorce but want to find a transgendered person to have as a friend and maybe a LTR. My only problem is my job and having custody of my three young kids. I am in the Army and have a 2-, 3- and 5-year-old and I don't know if it would be a healthy environment for them to grow up with or if it would cause confusion.

I doubt it since they wouldn't be privy to the sexual exploitations that could happen with my companion. But also if someone knows or notices my companion used to be a man, I wouldn't want it to affect my job. I am not looking for a quick one-nighter and since I have been married, I have been looking more and more into the kind of person who is transgendered, and it doesn't bother me.
I accept people, as long as they are sane, of course. Any tips or advice or help you could offer would be much appreciated, and I want friends first until I get my life how I want it, but having someone who understands what I want and who doesn't judge will help. Thank you for your time.


Subject: TSGirlfriend site.
Date: 10/20/2010 5:05:20 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hi there,

I came across your site and being a pre-op transsexual in a relationship, you have hit the nail on the head with just about everything you have said! I enjoyed reading it and would love to contribute anything you may want to know about a transsexual in transition and in a strong loving relationship. I have been at each end of the spectrum, from dating, escorting, to disappointment, to being the happiest girl alive. Great site!

I've attached two photos of me. One is a very, very early picture of me early in my transition with lots of makeup, no boobs, just started hormones, and an one crappy wig! The other one is a more recent shot, a normal hormone regime, hair implants, some cosmetic surgeries, and fresh implants giving me a 38C cup.

Hope to hear from you,



Subject: Could I ask you a bit of advice?
Date: 10/14/2010 9:37:20 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Good afternoon,

I've been with my girlfriend, who is a MtF, for a few months now. We're at a point where are comfortable having sex, in fact so comfortable there seems to be no end to it (which is fine by me). My concern, though, is this: The reality of our situation, until she has SRS, is that all of the sex is anal, which is fine, but her "cleanliness" (for lack of a better word) is hit or miss.

I don't think she is at all aware that it's a good idea if she cleans herself out first before we have sex. I want to bring the subject up, but I'm a very frank person. I don't want it to come off sounding accusatory, or in such a way that makes her upset or think I'm dissatisfied with her in some way. I just need a pointer in how to "diplomatically" bring it up. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you!


Subject: Great article, thank you.
Date: 10/10/2010 3:07:57 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hi there,

I'm a 34-year-old male open-minded straight male from the UK. I've recently started dating a post-op transsexual whom I'd secretly fancied for a while -- she is very glamorous!! I finally admitted this was
the case about two months ago and told a gay friend, and subsequently a few other close friends. Anyway after a little matchmaking, I finally plucked up the courage to ask her out, and she said yes!

Despite plenty of kissing, cuddling and a little foreplay, we've yet to have actually have sex -- it seems there's a strong attraction between us and I guess we want it to make it very special.

That's why I was looking for advice on the Web and came across your article on sex with a transsexual woman. It's been immensely helpful, :-) even though being with her does not feel particular different than a GG. I wanted to read and understand a lot more about her orgasm and the general do's and don'ts.

Many, many thanks!


Subject: Thanks for article!
Date: 10/5/2010 6:17:40 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I very recently met a beautiful girl who is a TS, and who I love spending time with. I feel so at ease with her, and what is amazing is that I have no experience whatsoever dating anyone from her community, and yet I experienced no hesitation at all in loving on her body. I don't want her to worry that she is just a door out of the "closet" for me, as she is to me the most beautiful WOMAN I have ever been with.

Thanks again for your articles!


Subject: Website.
Date: 10/3/2010 4:05:19 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Dear website owner,

Thank you for the information on your website, it is in good detail and helps a lot as I am looking for someone. Now I have a guide of things to do and things not to do and how to progress things if they should continue once I find someone.

I am not done with reading all the material but I do look forward as it will help a lot or give me much to consider.


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