TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
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WITH YOUNG KIDS SEEKS T-GIRL
I am a 29-year-old bisexual white male. I am going through a divorce but want to find a transgendered person to have as a friend and maybe a LTR. My only problem is my job and having custody of my three young kids. I am in the Army and have a 2-, 3- and 5-year-old and I don't know if it would be a healthy environment for them to grow up with or if it would cause confusion.
I doubt it since they
wouldn't be privy to the sexual exploitations that could happen with my
companion. But also if someone knows or notices my companion used to be
a man, I wouldn't want it to affect my job. I am not looking for a quick
one-nighter and since I have been married, I have been looking more and
more into the kind of person who is transgendered, and it doesn't bother
WE NAILED IT
THE TIDY T-GIRL
I've been with my girlfriend, who is a MtF, for a few months now. We're at a point where are comfortable having sex, in fact so comfortable there seems to be no end to it (which is fine by me). My concern, though, is this: The reality of our situation, until she has SRS, is that all of the sex is anal, which is fine, but her "cleanliness" (for lack of a better word) is hit or miss.
I don't think she is at all aware that it's a good idea if she cleans herself out first before we have sex. I want to bring the subject up, but I'm a very frank person. I don't want it to come off sounding accusatory, or in such a way that makes her upset or think I'm dissatisfied with her in some way. I just need a pointer in how to "diplomatically" bring it up. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
POST-OP T-GIRL SAID: "YES!"
I'm a 34-year-old
male open-minded straight male from the UK. I've recently started dating
a post-op transsexual whom I'd secretly fancied for a while -- she is
very glamorous!! I finally admitted this was
Despite plenty of kissing, cuddling and a little foreplay, we've yet to have actually have sex -- it seems there's a strong attraction between us and I guess we want it to make it very special.
That's why I was looking for advice on the Web and came across your article on sex with a transsexual woman. It's been immensely helpful, :-) even though being with her does not feel particular different than a GG. I wanted to read and understand a lot more about her orgasm and the general do's and don'ts.
Many, many thanks!
I very recently met a beautiful girl who is a TS, and who I love spending time with. I feel so at ease with her, and what is amazing is that I have no experience whatsoever dating anyone from her community, and yet I experienced no hesitation at all in loving on her body. I don't want her to worry that she is just a door out of the "closet" for me, as she is to me the most beautiful WOMAN I have ever been with.
Thanks again for your articles!
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