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October, 2011

By- tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

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Subject: Website.
Date: 10/31/2011 10:42:26 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com


I have been reading through your website with great interest and in close detail.

I am a straight man and we have a lady in our company who is very good looking and I knew she was single and had planned on asking her for a date. There were rumors that she was a transsexual but as I fancied her I did ask her out after reading the pages of your website.

I was surprised by what she said. We had worked together occasionally and got on well. She was accepted by everyone and didn't get any abuse from any work colleagues. When I asked her out, she smiled at me and said, "Sorry, I'm a lesbian." Out of all the answers I thought she could have said, this was totally unexpected.

I just wondered if you had any experience of meeting transsexuals who were lesbians. We still work together and get on well so I don't know whether she is a lesbian or it was just her way of saying "no."


--Robin J.

Subject: Thank you.
Date: 10/31/2011 2:42:36 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com


I have been reading with great interest your advice and information on dating and relationships with T-girls, very logical and informative, a lot to take in but very helpful.

Yours sincerely,


Subject: Please, I hope I can be understood.
Date: 10/30/2011 12:08:49 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Yes folks, I'm a 47-year-old man that is seriously interested in a long-term relationship, but get rejected right away by being sincere. I'm a wheelchair person, can I still try this site?


Subject: Thank you.
Date: 10/22/2011 8:07:59 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

I read your articles on how to date a woman in transition.

They were very enlightening.

I consider myself to be a pretty masculine straight man but I do love to look at ladies in transition.

I am a nerd, granted a 6'4" nerd with blue eyes and all of my hair at 46 years old.

In my younger days, I sowed my wild oats, as it were. But I, so far, have not found the one lady to share the rest of my life with.

I don't know exactly what I am looking for, but I do know that I have yet to find the lady to complete my life.

Anyway, thanks for your site.


Subject: Photographing TSG.
Date: 10/21/2011 1:27:04 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hi Michael,

I found your site and read what you wrote about transgenders. I've always had a lot of interest in this area. It has always been near and dear to my heart because I have very close friends who like this lifestyle but only privately and who are not secure enough to go in public. I also have some friends who wish to change their gender but are going through a lot of emotional, social and financial difficulties.

I read your article, "Transsexual Girls and This TSG Website: A History of TSGirlfriend.com," and thought maybe you would be the right person to help me. You are a great writer and thinker and you seem to have many insights into the subject of T-girls.

I was really touched by your story of how a T-girl who attempted to commit suicide was rescued through the collective efforts of people in the chat room and how she was "99% gone" when the rescue guys arrived. Reading about it really took my breath away. You are doing a great service to people by maintaining the website, keeping the community together and creating a safe environment for people to interact and meet each other. People should know about it.

I am a photographer and a videographer. I've been invited to participate in the show about transgender people and I am looking for models and events. I might be barking up the wrong alley but maybe you could guide me in the right direction. I live in Los Angeles but I am willing to travel and get to know people on a more intimate level so I can get a feel of their essence.

I would appreciate it if you could give me any leads on people that might be interested in being photographed, and interesting gathering events and places that you know of, in LA area of anywhere else. I would appreciate it if you would spread the word or give me some leads or a piece of advice.

Anyways, just wanted to put it out there. Please let me know your thoughts on that or if you have any ideas.



Subject: Searching for true love with a pre-op transsexual female!
Date: 10/20/2011 7:44:59 P.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hello I'm Neil for real,and I would like some advice on finding my soul mate. I just turned 58 two weeks ago,and I think that my age is working against me. I'm not just looking for an 18-year-old girl, but most of the T-girls that I have seen that started their transition late in their 40's or 50's look like it, so I'm looking for a girl many years younger than myself. I hope that you can help me,and if you can't, I will understand. Thank you for your considerations.


Subject: Email list.
Date: 10/20/2011 2:42:30 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com

Hi Michael,

Thank you for running what appears to be the only respectable TS site out there. I'm really getting tired of creeps with profiles that include genital pictures on the other sites. I'm looking for a real relationship, not sleaze.

Please include my email on your list of TS women looking for a relationship. I'm post-op and my birth year is 1951. I live in Seattle, Washington.



Subject: Dating.
Date: 10/13/2011 3:15:19 A.M. Pacific Standard Time
From: Deleted
To: tsgirlfriend4me@gmail.com


I have been reading some of your articles as of late and find them to be very insightful. Although, poignant in most cases, some facts you assert I don't agree with entirely.

I have had one TS and she was my GF who loved topping me and she was very feminine. Alas, that was a long time ago. I am looking for a new GF a real TSGF and I was wondering if you had any tips as to where I could go.

I live in the Bronx, NYC. Thank you so much for any and all help.


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