TGirls Letters - TGirl Feedback to Us
Our TGirls Letters section is devoted to feedback we receive. The most recent letters appear at the top.
FINDS HER MAN
I would like to request my name and email address being removed from your site with regards to guys contacting me, for I have found the guy of my dreams. You are doing an amazing job, and your site rocks!!!
ON DATING THE PRE-OP TGIRL
AS AN ADMIRER
I just reread -- yet again, having been a member of TSG for some many years -- your article on "The Great Boyfriend." It suddenly struck me what was wrong with the basic thrust!
Apparently, you -- along with many TS girls -- are the only ones who realize that "admirer" is not necessarily an admirable term, pun intended! I belong to several sites, including TSMatch. The funny part is -- even for the so-called friendliest, non-working girl dating sites -- virtually no one has a category for males to self-identify other than admirer, or worse, "tranny chaser."
I've dated and lived with TG women for many years -- and am between (hopefully) relationships right now -- so don't really consider myself in either category. The same goes with sexual identification. It's either straight, gay, bi, or some other inane category that someone dreamed up like "pansexual." What's wrong with just plain "human sexual being"?
Anyway, I've enjoyed the site for many years, tend to come and go in chat due to my strange work schedules -- television makes strange bedfellows with a routine -- and am quite impressed when I see yet another girl post a link to the dating rules on TSG on their webpage. So, you're doing something right!
Just my little venting,
TGIRLS & MAN BASHING
My wife (I refuse to use the term partner. There is nothing whatsoever derogatory about the terms wife and husband) and I together brought six children into the world (planned and wanted) and shared the load. When I came home from work I helped with housework, changed nappies, helped with bottle feeding, and what have you. We share everything, there is no "yours" or "mine" in our relationship. Of course, we argue at times, but we always make up and forget it.
I get quite hurt when I am "attacked" by the female of the species for no other reason than I am male. I am called stupid, a pig, told that I cannot read, and so on. If I point out that I was a chief systems design engineer for a multinational company, this falls by the wayside, unnoticed. I am just trying to point out that, like a lot of my peers, I cannot be classed as stupid. I must point also out that most of those who do run me down can barely string two coherent sentences together themselves.
There. Now I have sounded off and now I am no better than those I am complaining about. LOL. Oh well, what the hell. We only have one life, so why can we ALL not spend it helping each other?
Peace and love.
HAS A GREATER
SAYS: YOU UNDERSTAND
I hope this is going to you. I have recently joined TSMatch and TSGirlfriend and have to say thank you, you really seem to understand. I am sure others have told you thanks before, but I just wanted you to know from me.
TGIRLS: TWO KINDS OF BI GUYS
First, let me congratulate you on a great site. TSGirlfriend cuts though a hell of a lot of BS created by the porn industry, and that is obviously desperately needed.
However, I have one minor correction on the What a TS Woman Wants article. Maybe a clarification. I'm bi, but I don't think I'd be insulting you if I were attracted to you. The difference is that I'd be attracted to you as a *woman*. Bi guys ARE into women, after all!
Now, I know damned well that TS women deal with just tons of crap from guys with repressed gay fantasies. But I do think it is very different with guys who are actually OK with their desires for men. I'd never feel the need to try to get a woman (regardless of plumbing) to top me because (duh) that's a job for a guy!
Anyway, I know it might make the prose clunky, but it seems to me it would be more accurate if you distinguished between bi guys who are afraid of it and bi guys who are OK with it. I think the reactions to TS women are night and day between the two groups.
Again, what a great site!
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